Shoulder To Shoulder will host its 6th annual Legacy Bowl on Sunday, March 5, 1PM to 4:30PM at AMF Rocklin Lanes – 2325 Sierra Meadows Dr., Rocklin, with 20 teams for an afternoon of fun and fundraising to support STS mentoring programs.
Last year’s event was an afternoon full of inspiration, perspiration, family fun, and a time of honoring our amazing mentees. More than 200 people showed up for the festivities, and the Legacy Bowl event raised over $20,000 to benefit the many urban fatherless young boys and their families we serve.
We had a great time together. We heard stories of how lives have been changed through long-term one-on-one mentoring, and the impact our Moms Helping Moms program has on the moms and grandmothers who raise these precious young boys.
Thanks to your participation and generosity, Shoulder To Shoulder will continue to reach fatherless young boys, igniting hope and purpose in their lives, and equipping them for life.
If you would like more information about this event or would like to make a financial contribution to help Strike Down Fatherlessness, please email firstname.lastname@example.org or call (916) 285-5422. We look forward to seeing you there!Read more
Please join us on May 3rd, 2016 for another historic event for our region, the 2016 BIG Day of Giving. Over a 24-hour period from midnight to midnight, Shoulder To Shoulder will join with nearly 600 other nonprofits to raise money for their causes.
Our goals is to break the generational cycle of fatherlessness in our inner city communities. Please support Shoulder To Shoulder for this year’s Big Day of Giving on Tuesday, May 3rd. On that day please visit Big Day of Giving and help us make an impact.
Please mark your calendar.Read more
In the opening of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol, Ebenezer Scrooge is the classic miser….not even a spark of generosity existed in the heart of this selfish man.
On Christmas Eve, Scrooge received a visit from two “portly gentlemen” seeking a charitable contribution for the poor, he was not inspired to give. Then a visit from Jacob Marley, Scrooge’s former partner, the miser’s heart began to soften.
By the end of A Christmas Carol, Scrooge became a man of exceeding and joyful generosity. Nothing reveals his change of heart more than his interaction with the two portly gentlemen on Christmas morning. Seeing them in the streets, he grabbed their hands and wished them Merry Christmas. Then, he whispered into the ear of one of the gentlemen what he intended to contribute to their mission for the poor.
“Lord bless me!” cried the gentleman, as if his breath were taken away. “My dear Mr. Scrooge, are you serious?”
“If you please,” said Scrooge. “Not a farthing less. A great many back-payments are included in it, I assure you.”
Today Christmas is a time for generosity. Some are caught up in the gift-giving spirit of the season. Others make charitable gifts to lessen their tax burden. Still others are moved to drop spare change into the Salvation Army red kettles.
“And God is able to provide you with every blessing in abundance, so that by always having enough of everything, you may share abundantly in every good work.” 2 Corinthians 9:8
For Christians, generosity is surely one excellent way to celebrate the birth of Christ. We give, not simply because of seasonal emotion, but because God has given so richly to us in Jesus Christ. Moreover, as 2 Corinthians 9:8 makes clear, we are generous because God has so generously blessed us “with every blessing in abundance.”
We pass on to others that which God has lavished upon us. We hear as if spoken to us the instructions Jesus once gave to his first disciples, “Freely you have received, freely give” (Matt 10:8, NIV).
Of course, our generous response to God’s generosity is not limited to the Christmas season. Thus, we have the opportunity and responsibility to give each day what God has lavished upon us. We keep Christmas well through living generously throughout the year.
Dear Friends of STS,
As you make decisions about your year-end giving plans, please consider the following recent timely event that saturated the news media.
It was 3:45 in the afternoon when the shooting took place. Five players on the Grant Union High School football team in Sacramento had stopped to get some food before the playoff game, and were on their way back to school to suit up. Excitement was high when their lives were suddenly shattered by gunshots. One dead, another injured, a game postponed, and inner-city lives completely altered. The entire Grant High School family and the largely fatherless Del Paso Heights community was once again rocked by a fatal shooting.
It is at times like this when God and family provide shelter and comfort in the storm. It is in the hard times when a Dad can help his children weather the storm. But what can be done when a young boy has no father to run to. When a young inner-city boy’s world is rocked, whether by a shooting or something else, where can he go when there is no Dad in the home?
This is why Shoulder To Shoulder is so passionate about what we do. God’s intention has always been for Dads to be there for their children, especially in times of adversity. But where there is no Dad, we at STS have the privilege to be there as a mentor and to help the boys process through, and learn from, hard times. When the Grant High football team held a players and coaches-only meeting right before the re-scheduled game, one of the STS mentors, who is also a pastor in Del Paso Heights, was invited to be there. At a critical time, he was able to help the players navigate through their raw emotions. In the same way, our STS mentors are there for every mentee and our “Moms Helping Moms” coaches are there for their single mothers.
Our ability to be there for the fatherless is made possible because of your prayers, service, and support. As we approach the end of the year, with Thanksgiving and Christmas filling the air, would you remember TeamSTS? You can help us break the cycle of fatherlessness in three different ways:
From all of us at TeamSTS, thank you for your support and we hope that you have a blessed Thanksgiving.Read more
Mary, the grandmother of Jeremiah, a mentee, was singing praises about Jeremiah’s mentor. She told me how the mentor took Jeremiah to get a battery for her smoke alarm and installed it. She also shared how his mentor graciously worked on her backyard. She made a point to let us know that the mentor had Jeremiah doing most of the work – but that his mentor gave him direction and time. “Jeremiah really likes his mentor!” Jeremiah loves the fact that his mentor spends so much time with him. Perhaps it may seem like mentors aren’t connecting with their mentees at times, but when you are not looking, his grandmother gets to see the smile on his face and the confidence in his walk. A story of love!
Elijah, a 14 year old boy, continues to impress my friends and our acquaintances with his maturity. On the Cast Hope fishing trip, our fishing guide commented on his goodness after spending 5 hours on the Yuba River. My family and friends at church were also excited to see him paint alongside them on a service project in Del Paso Heights. He worked hard and never complained or asked to stop from 10 am till 3:00 pm. He is becoming comfortable around different people. A story of transformation!
After understanding the STS goal setting process, my mentee, Chou, stared at the area outside of his house and decided to take responsibility for the “garden” strip under eve in front. Working side by side, we cleared, planted (gardenias and azaleas), put in drip irrigation and bark. Chou did much of the shovel work, cut and glued the PVC and helped with weed shield. He seems very proud of his garden. It took us 4 hours! We finished in rain and dark but he kept working to accomplish his goal! A story of success!
Jorge, my mentee, came to me after he and I had been matched for about 6 months and asked if it was possible for his girlfriend, Arianna, to get a mentor with STS. I told Jorge that I would look into it but that right now we only have men serving boys. I was curious why Jorge made this request so I asked him why. Jorge said his girlfriend noticed the improvement in his grades and wanted help from a mentor to get her grades up. Jorge also explained that her grades have slowly declined as her freshman year has progressed. I asked Jorge “Does she think all I do is tutor you?” Jorge said he wasn’t sure but that she had seen Jorge’s grades improve from a .16 GPA to a 3.0 GPA on his progress reports and she wants to be a part of it. A story of success and hope!
Yesterday Tammy met with a single mother who had recently been forced out of her home and currently living between family members. School started and one of her sons couldn’t go to school because the only shoes he had access to were flip flops and cleats to play baseball in. Everything else was in storage. When I called the mom to ask her if any of her sons needed shoes, she burst into tears. “Oh my God, I can’t believe you just asked me that. I took my kids to school today and one of them wasn’t allowed in his classroom because I don’t have proper shoes for him to wear!” I asked her to bring her son and meet someone who wanted to bless her. Tammy and the mom met, as well as the young man out of school. Tammy gave the two boys their new shoes and we can only imagine the emotional exchange that went on between mother, sons and someone who cares enough to share. A story of blessing!
Rose – Since implementing the tools I learned in the MHM classes, my son and I are able to communicate clearly, and more regularly. He is comfortable talking to me about things; whereas before he would shut himself up in the room, go outside to play with friends, or act out in subtle ways to communicate his frustrations. A story about growth
Adam – From the very beginning it was clear that Adam was attending Freedom Hall for a purpose. Adam is fairly small, physically and his voice is gentle and sometimes described as squeaky. It took several weeks of attendance before Adam began to open up to his peers and the staff at Freedom Hall because he would often be made fun of in school. Over the course of time Adam not only began to open up to his peers but became a natural leader. During our team building activities Adam emerges as the individual who pulls his peers together to accomplish their task. A story about maturing
Ericka – My son has adjusted very well to being in a different State. He has achieved honor roll at his Middle School with a 3.2 GPA. We both continue to communicate with our chosen mentor; whom we respect and love dearly. I thank all of the STS Family members for all of your love and support. Thank you so much. I love the entire program – the Moms Helping Moms each second Saturday – the closeness of the entire STS Family – they are genuinely concerned about the uplifting, elevating and success of our fatherless sons in our community! Keep doing what you do! A story of success!
Isaiah (Mentee since 2007) – According to his mother, within weeks Isaiah’s attitude improved and his self-confidence soared. Through participating in STS workshops and activities, he gained the tools to deal with his anger and the challenges he faced. With improved confidence and STS tutoring, Isaiah’s grades improved through 7th and 8th grade to a 3.6 average. After graduating from high school in four years, Isaiah moved on to Sacramento City College. A story of transformation!
Semaj (Mentee since 2007) – I was never judged when I came here. You are not judged for what you did or what you do. They would stand by me anyway. I didn’t realize what I was missing. If I want to lead, I have to learn to follow. They taught me to understand (others) before I can be understood. I learned about integrity and what it means to be a real man. Besides my mom, Shoulder To Shoulder is the most consistent thing I’ve had in my life. I don’t know where I’d be if it wasn’t for Freedom Hall. I want to help someone else so they can see how it feels and then they can help someone else, and we can change everything. A story of transformation!Read more
Meet Isaiah and his mother, Angela. Theirs is a story of redemption.
Angela grew up fatherless. She was molested at 8 years old. Again at 18. Prostitution became her prison. Drugs and alcohol became her escape.
This vicious cycle didn’t stop despite having Isaiah and four other children.
Isaiah grew up fatherless. He also grew up angry, hopeless, and confused. Why couldn’t his mother stop? Why was he afforded this lot in life?
But in life, it’s not where you start. It’s where you’re going. Shoulder To Shoulder helped transform the lives of Angela and Isaiah — from generationally fatherless to living life on a righteous path. We celebrate who they are and their desire to pay it forward by being an example to others.
Please listen to the words of Isaiah and Angela, and learn how TeamSTS helped them in their story of redemption. We hope their story inspires you to take action.
Day in and day out, over 40 volunteers are accomplishing something truly amazing. They are positively changing the lives of fatherless young men in Del Paso Heights one by one.
This year alone, 25 young men experienced the transformative power of a mentor. These young men were guided, embraced, encouraged, and empowered. Young men like Jeremiah (pictured above) are smiling again.
We are blessed to be in a position to facilitate hope in the hopeless, encourage those bewildered, and accept generationally fatherless boys for whom they are, not what they will become. But we’re also blessed to have you on the TeamSTS family.
In the spirit of the holidays, we wanted to take a moment to say THANK YOU for all of the support, advice and wise counsel. You have provided your time, your talents and your commitment – and we hope you continue blessing us and those we serve with those treasures.
With a grateful heart, we say THANK YOU.
You are lucky enough to be able to read this. Most of the kids we serve can’t… or are significantly behind in their grade level reading.
Some alarming news about school drop-out rates: (source: foxnews.com2008)
In 2014, we will launch Project Literacy. The program will mobilize Grant High School students to return to the elementary schools they attended and meet weekly with two students each to help them learn how to read better by 3rdgrade.
We need your help to get this program off the ground.
Would you or your place of business contribute your time, energy, talents or dollars to help launch this program?Read more
Our 2nd Annual Igniting Hope Gala was an inspiring event that touched all of our hearts and confirmed once again how important we all feel about living a life that leaves a legacy. We are so proud of each of you who participated and decided to partner with us as we Break the Cycle of Fatherlessness in Del Paso Heights. Imagine the impact one young man whose life has changed by having the benefit of mentoring.
The event took place at the AEROSPACE MUSEUM OF CALIFORNIA on Saturday October 19, 2013. Emcee’d by Cristina Mendonsa, News10-ABC Anchor/Multimedia Journalist, the event featured Dr. John Jackson, President of William Jessup University as the keynote speaker and Major Zack Samuel-Burnett, Former U.S. Air Force U-2S Pilot.
Live music, a festive dinner and mingling with the boys whose lives have been forever changed made the evening a heart-touching success. We want to thank you for considering this unique opportunity to share with you our dedication to transforming lives and Igniting Hope within a community where “hope” is hard to find.
Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. Two simple words, one tremendous meaning.
This year has been a phenomenal year for Shoulder To Shoulder.
All of this and more was accomplished because of you — your time, your money, your commitment. We are invested in helping these fatherless young men continue to thrive, but they need our support. They need your support.
We have launched our year-end giving campaign. Whether it’s a contribution of time, energy, talents or dollars, anything helps.
But first, we simply wanted to say THANK YOU for all you do.Read more